tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-186853202011-04-21T15:36:21.598-07:00Alter EgoConfessions of a Dominant MindAlter Egonoreply@blogger.comBlogger41100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18685320.post-65754772218037722242007-05-07T12:43:00.000-07:002007-08-12T19:27:41.483-07:00The Black ListOver the years chatting on IRC I have met a lot of people. Some very good friendships have emerged out of that, but unfortunately some people I met online turned out to be shallow. They betrayed my trust, lied, or simply stopped responding without any reason. And I am not alone. More and more of my friends share the same experiences.The following is a list of names, IPs and locations (where it's Alter Egonoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18685320.post-1143726261524431602006-03-30T05:44:00.000-08:002006-04-02T03:57:08.310-07:00Total controlWhen I'm talking to people interested in BDSM, or when responding to a profile on a BDSM-related website, I often find myself explaining what BDSM means to me. It is a common misconception that BDSM is clear by definition, that everyone who has a certain interest in it already knows what it means. It goes that far, that some people actually believe there are rules, laws even, a kind of codex, Alter Egonoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18685320.post-1140905158337050772006-02-25T14:05:00.000-08:002006-03-30T05:56:29.766-08:00The art of looking without lookingGoing through ads of some of the various dating websites out there, it continues to amaze me how many people are looking for something they are officially not looking for.Take collarme.com, a newcomer on the lane slowly surpassing alt.com and bondage.com, for an example. Because I'm only interested in girls, I can only tell about girls profiles, but every second or third one I open says "I am Alter Egonoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18685320.post-1133104827920178002005-11-27T07:19:00.000-08:002005-11-27T18:01:32.756-08:00The true identity of Alter EgoWelcome to my blog. I am Alter Ego, and this is the nickname for my alter ego. There is no other identity to it. It is just a reference to the fact I can not reveal my true identity here, because I am dominant, or Dom, as classified by BDSM terminology. Perhaps some of you agree that BDSM is not really the best ice breaker on parties, unless it is one where everyone is wearing a t-shirt that saysAlter Egonoreply@blogger.com0